Reignite your marriage even after parenthood

It's now easy to keep the spark alive in your relation even after becoming parents. Read in to know how

Well we agree it's not an easy task to keep the chemistry going once there's is the pit-a-pat of a little angel's feet in the house. There's chores to be attended to, dishes to be washed, food to be cooked and sleep to catch up. And this 'vicious' cycle begins all over again. But even in amidst of 'so many' work to be attended, being man and woman is not altogether impossible either. Your child is the culmination of your love so why should you make him a reason of losing passion and sheen in your relation? Read on to know how to revive your love even after enjoying parenthood.

Love at the doorstep- You are back after a long tiring day and your toddler is eagerly waiting at the doorstep to get in your arms. Many relationship experts opine that a healthy bond between mom and dad is the foundation stone of a peaceful home and that too starts at the entrance gate. Sweep your child in your arm and head straight to your spouse and land a peck on his/her cheek. This will silently convey to your partner that he/she is still your top priority. Plus, your child will glow in the love that you both will share.

Again become a couple- The sudden realization of parenting often becomes a burden and leaves you too tired to share anything more than a hug by the end of the day. But it is crucial to re-ignite your love so keep up the flirt quotient high throughout the day. The gentle touch, kiss/hug or caress on the neck won't only keep the spark of romance alive but will also tell your kids that marriage isn't not only about responsibilities.
Relax- True, he put dirty socks on the bed and she didn't remember to turn off the gas. But is shouting about every little oversight going to work for you? Learn when should you let go off things. There are more bigger (when I am saying bigger, believe me its really bigger) things to take care of. Let the dishes be tomorrow’s problem. Whenever, you fume with anger, think for a minute; will this really matter two years down the line? If the answer comes negative, you know it is good to stop now.

Catch up your old time- Remember the old friends you used to have or those favorite hangouts. Your friends may be waiting to hear from you (probably not the new thing your kid learnt). Catch a movie or revisit your favorite place again. Take up a class you always wanted to and also encourage your partner to do the same. Work around each others time. Believe me when you will pamper yourself, you will rediscover yourself and that will make you more lovable!

Woes of the newly married women!

There is nothing more beautiful than being able to spend the rest of your life with the person you find truly compatible. However, marriage is no longer remains the sole aim of a girl's aim. Gone are those days when parents wanted their daughters to get married by the age of 20-22 years and mouled herself according to her in laws lifestyle.

Of late, things like high education, financial stability, career prospects, etc., are also enjoying the prime importance on the priorities list of a woman. Although, these changes have made contemporary women independent but sadly, it is still not a change that is readily accepted in a traditional family.

Lets' delve deep into some impending problems that a new bride faces in today's scenario

Getting no time to learn or improve culinary skills- Yes, it is true because I can also relate myself to this situation as even after years of marriage, I am still learning how to cook food. No matter how modern a family claims to be, they always want their daughter in law to show her cooking expertise. Even Aishwarya Rai cooked halwa for her in laws after her marriage! But nowadays, as girls are getting busier in their academic and professional lives, they hardly get time to work on their culinary. Lack of culinary skills is one of the biggest (or I should say, dangerous) challenges that a woman can face. I still forget what spices I need to add in which dal or sabji. Though, many households hire help in the kitchen but they still hold high expectations from their daughter in law. Unfortunately, this doesn't happen only in joint families. Even in nuclear families, husband wants their wife to cook at least some times, not every second day.


Making adjustments with in-laws- Though marriage demands lot of adjustments but if you get married into a conventional family, even the self-dependent and headstrong woman in you might fight it difficult to compromise on new family's lifestyle. Especially your food habits, your clothing style, your work timings and many other things, you may find daunting to change to match your in-laws preferences. No matter how understanding your in-laws are, there can still be some things that they want you to change. So be ready for that!

Infringement of personal space- As soon as you change from Miss to Mrs, you will feel the burden of responsibility of every family member as well as your husband. Whether you are in a joint family or nuclear family, you might have to visit your in-laws frequently or they recurring visit you. The sudden realization of responsibilities after spending years under the protective shelter of your parents can be little intimidating. Juggling your personal life with professional commitments can leave you with no 'me' time.


Expectations..expectations and expectations- It is true but the expectations your better half and your in-laws might have from you can be really scary. If you panic, it can adversely affect your married life. There are some particular expectations also which are specific to every house. Like, keeping fasts,
doing puja in different manner, etc. Though look like routine, but they might come as unpleasant surprises for some girls.


 

In case you are also facing any of the above listed problems, it is best to stay calm and talk to your in-laws. A good discussion can resolve even the most trickiest problem!

Its Revealed! Beauty secrets of Katrina Kaif for all soon-to-be brides

Undoubtedly Katrina Kaif is a diva. She has enthralled once and all with her flawless beauty, charming eyes, perfect figure and mesmerizing looks. Her fascination has not made just men but even women go gaga. So, this time, I am unveiling some beauty tips for soon-to-be brides so that you can cast your aroma on your man on the d-day-  

Her secret to healthy skin- Katrina firmly believes that in order to get a beautiful and glowing skin, you should have 4-5 glasses of water every morning. This helps in detoxifying your body and also helps in blood circulation. Also, once in a while, it is crucial to pamper your body with massages and facials as these help in increasing blood circulation and make your skin glowing.

Her secret to makeup- Katrina doesn't appreciate the idea of wearing too much makeup. A concealer is a nice choice as it allows skin to breathe. To combat any beauty emergencies, she uses mineral mud masks as they quickly remove skin impurities. Katrina says that never hit the bed with makeup on. Also, to produce a magical effect to the eyes, this 'barbie doll' prefers to use a lot of kohl and mascara. She says that it helps in uplifting the face and makes eyes more expressive. A good lip gloss can make your lips attractive yet not flashy.  

Her secret to luscious hair- As the actress needs to try various hairstyles to suit her movie character, she does deep conditioning once a week.

Her exercise tips- Katrina believes that it is imperative to do exercise to maintain healthy body.

Swimming, cycling , jogging and dancing are good exercises to get a toned figure.

Her diet- She avoids carbohydrates & empty calories and prefers to eat food enriched in iron, vitamins and proteins. She eats lot of fresh fruits and salads in between her meals as this keeps her body healthy.  

Start today! Work out, enjoy balanced food, pamper your skin, maintain good lifestyle, put the right makeup and be a beauty queen yourself.

Must Haves “True Desi Dishes” For An Opulent Indian Wedding

The best way to make your marriage memorable for your guests is by giving them delectable wedding flavors. But another 'tasty' way to etch your wedding moments in their minds for a long time is by treating their taste buds with sumptuous taste. The gourmand in them will surely talk about it for a quite long time. Well, this time we suggest you to ditch the western dishes and explore Indian cuisines for the wedding. If you are short of great ideas, take a look here-
Delhi's papri/aloo chaat

The famous Delhi's chaat keeps even a 'figure-conscious' person on his toes. The name is enough to tickle the taste buds. The 'Dilli' chart encompasses yummy tikkis, papdi chaat and golgappe.






Bengal's mishti doi

- This is one of the most refreshing deserts. Made of sweetened yogurt and garnished with saffron and cardamoms, this is the most loved dish of Bengali, equally adorned throughout the world.






Hyderabadi Biryani-
The flavor of Basmati rice cooked in innumerable spices in an earthen pot is simply irresistible. This royal dish is available in both veg and non-veg style.








Lucknow’s Kababs- 
These vegetarian or non-vegetarian kababs from the land of Nawabs are worldwide acclaimed. The intense incense of vegetables and delectable spices barbequed and splurged with yummy sauces are a savory for anybody who loves to enjoy this royal treat.

Rajasthan’s Dal Bati- 

Lentils fried in desi ghee and baked wheat puffs from the land of Maharajas, are the luscious fillers. The intense aroma is sure to mesmerize your guests.







South Indian Dosa-
Easily fits into any menu, it is one of the most versatile meals. Both light and crispy, this dish gets a thumbs up even from diet conscious persons! Their gastronomic structure is indeed palatable.

Banarasi Paan

- Who can forget the richness and exotic fragrance of the banarasi paan? Give an overwhelming finale to the food ensembles with humble paan, directly from the city of Banaras.  

Show Off your Glasses On Your Wedding Day!

No power in the world can restrain me from admitting 'Yes I have a hugeeee crush on my glasses! (I know the number of 'e' can tell you the depthness of my love for my glasses). O god I am so big fan of glasses that I can even tell you the date when I was introduced to my love 20. March 2000. I know, I may sound like an insane but that is the subtle testimonial of my love to my specs. Like all oldies, my mother and aunt also perturbed my idea of wearing glasses on my wedding day. I was sure to receive this jaw breaking response from you but in fact, in reality, it was true that I was tenacious of my decision and so, my family surrendered to me and my specs :) But I think God hated that I covered his creation with human made item, so he whipped me and I surrendered to my friends request, who threatened to boycott my wedding if I would be a spectacle bride. However, my silly friends statements shouldn't mean that you should completely avoid your glasses on your d-day. Infact, my research in to brides who wear glasses persuade me to jot down a few things, which should you check-

• If you are apprehensive in anyway about looking your best in your wedding photographs by putting on your glasses, talk to your wedding photographer. I am sure he will be able to put you at ease by giving you the opportunity of some per-wedding shots.
• If there is a plan to wear a veil that will sit around your face then make sure the delicate fabric won't snag on the edge of your specs.
• Think of your glasses as an extra accessory like any other jewelery and accessory. I believe in simplicity and so do you.

Wear that pair of glasses that make you look comfortable

If that means, your regular one-bravo! However, if the style of your regular one is something that bothers you or goes completely anti to your wedding wardrobe then why not gift yourself a new pair of specs?

It is not an astounding response from my end, but seeing a bride in glasses always make me smile. It shows that the girl is comfortable in her skin. Aren't the best photos are clicked where the subject is completely at ease after all?

I'm on a mission to prove that wearing glasses on your wedding day is totally a cool thing to do and there is nothing to hype. So, you should not ought to be worry in advance of your nuptial. Though it is rare to find a bride in glasses but I am really keen to know what our readers think.

Confused by your man's behavior? Things Your Guy Wants You To Know

Apart from the physicality, what is the difference between a man and woman? The latter is expressive while the former takes its own sweet time before divulging things! I know it is hard to know what lies beneath man's mind and heart. But don't worry, girls, I would help you in knowing your man in a much better way.
Here is what your man would like you to know

• He also loves chocolates- Men may hide their emotions and anxiety but there are moments when they also get teary-eyed. So, at this time offer them a chocolate and a tight hug, it will definitely make them happy.

• They want you to express love- Whether it's a warm hug, kiss or simply holding hands, men want you to show them how much you love and what you are feeling without holding back.
• He is not a mind reader, so don't expect him to read your mind- He is not an astrologer or a mind reader who can easily interpret what is going on in your mind. It has been seen that women expect their partner to be mind readers and their explanation for everything arises from the fact that if a guy is in true love with them then it should also be in tune with their changing emotions and moods. Sorry girls, it is not unfair. After all, why you want your partner to know everything without you uttering a single word, when you can't reciprocate the same behavior? So, speak up when something is bothering you and discuss with your partner.
• Don't act like a damsel in distress- A true man respects his lady love, value her independence and appreciate the fact that she is not a doormat but an intelligent and self-dependent person. Someone, who hold his hand in times of troubles and take charge of situation when nothing is going smoothly.