Monday, November 18, 2013

Kuch dil se......

    Whenever I fight with my husband, I think why I entered into a wedlock? But whenever, I feel lonely, I need him to embrace me. That's the beauty of the marriage. Sometimes, you can't stay together for a minute but many times, you can't think of staying apart from more than a minute. Marriage is not a cakewalk, I agreed but it is not so cumbersome process, which so-called 'marriage anti' people think. It is the beautiful bond where two souls promise to stay together under one roof till the last breath. I have a love marriage but here, I want to confess that after marriage, the thin line between love or arranged gets diluted. The only thing which remains is marriage. I too have had my ups and downs in my married life but the unconditional love and support of my husband has made it possible that I can proudly say that we are “happily married”. Like other couples, we also fight, scold each other. We say so much rubbish things to each other that if I would have been in an arranged marriage then surely I would have got a divorce! But, we both know that we will never leave each other. You must be thinking that why I am writing about my married life. But friends, I just want you to know that marriage is not such a bad thing. It is indeed a lovely bond between two people. I can say it with surety because I am living it!!!! I have found mine and I hope you will surely get yours or may be have already found!!! Share your lovely marriage experiences and I would be happy to read them.......

Handy Tips For To-Be-Brides

So, the big day is about to come...Marriage is a lifetime even which happens for only once, so make it so much beautiful that you will cherish it throughout your life. There are so many iffs and buts which should be avoided to make this 'day' a memorable one. Make-up to dress to gifts, you may get umpteen number of tips on different aspects but there are many other things also which need to be look into carefully to make sure that your 'new' relation starts on a good note. I know in sheer of excitement and fear, you may not dodge such things but don't worry, I would be happy to help you-
  • It is always worthwhile to note down all things on a piece of paper, which you may required to buy. It should include everything, right from how many pair of footwear, lipstick shades to shampoo and toothbrush. It is important to list down all these things so that you do not forget anything.
  • Wear your wedding footwear around the house prior to the d-day as it will make your feet accustom to them
  • Make sure your all dresses are properly ironed. Never try to iron clothes by your own and always take the help of an ironer. I still remember, I committed a mistake of ironing one of the dresses out of my bridal trousseau and the outcome was dangerous. It all got burnt and I spent more bucks to correct it. So, make sure you are not committing this mistake
  • Pack three suitcases-one for honeymoon, one for starting days when you don't want to rummage through your bags and the third one for bulky possession
  • Make sure your make-up kit includes only 'those' things which you may need. It is of no use to stuff your kit with unnecessary items. Some essential things, like tissue paper, etc., should also be in your kit. It has been seen that girls indulge into extra shopping of make-up items in the hope that they may need all these. But you should buy only limited good quality make-up things
  • Take the help of your fiance to identify the important members of the family. Ask him to show the photos of key family members so you won't be scrambling each time he is not around. Also, it will leave a good impression on family members also when they come to know that you already know them!
  • Though your 'new' family may not be orthodox but still it is important to stay within your limits. It means, your clothes and make-up should not be over-the do, which otherwise would convey the wrong signal. After all, some things can be kept for future also.
  • It is a nice idea to keep your clothes in a transparent packet and place a label on it so that you can easily find them
  • Always keep 5-6 undies, so that you can wear them if you are not in a situation when you can wash your used ones
  • Relax...Relax...and just relax....Though marriage is the biggest event of your life but there is no need to panic at all! The more you will relax, the more fresh and rejuvenate you will feel for the d-day