tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87782506232394181432024-03-05T02:37:11.619-08:00Indian Weddingsreenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-5860100949182853452019-06-07T04:58:00.000-07:002019-06-07T04:58:22.887-07:00Please keep killing girls in the womb<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<i>Innocent, helpless she was the angel who was only a few
years old,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>The torture which she had to endure was cruel and cold. <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Those eyes which should twinkle with mischief<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Now they are closed under the wrap of disbelief.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Those small feet which should walk towards future<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>They juggled to release from the clutches of a monster<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Neither she was wearing short dresses, nor she was smoking
and drinking,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Now it would be tough for society to blame her for
everything.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i><b>Keep killing her in the womb,</b><o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Not because she is a girl <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>but because we have no senses left to consider her equal <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Sometimes, I feel I should be sad that I am childless <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>But then my brain says I should celebrate for being child-free,
which is fabulous<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>I don’t need to worry about the safety of my baby,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Neither I need to protect her from strangers nor her
own family.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>We protest over masjids or temples,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>But we forget to save our ‘creator’- women from troubles.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i><b>Keep killing her in the womb,</b><o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Not because you think men are superior clearly,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>But because if she gets lucky and survives, she would die in
flames of dowry.<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i><b>Keep killing her in the womb,</b><o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>Not because you don’t respect her,<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<i>It’s just because one-time pain is better than living every
day in horror<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-15505801944886192042019-03-06T22:19:00.001-08:002019-03-06T22:20:46.754-08:00I am a woman who hates PINK and have no intentions to beat any man<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I am a woman and let me that only,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Today I tell you what I feel and think about being a woman clearly.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Society used to ask me when will I get married,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">In the veil of concern, they ordered me to be hurried.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Now when I am a happily married woman and I have a loving spouse,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I am still waiting to get that ‘trophy’ for obeying the society rules by taking marriage vows.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">People said, no matter how high your corporate profile is,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">what matters most is how ‘gol’ you can make </em>rotis<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">(un) fortunately, while I am good at the office front, the shape of my </em>rotis<em style="box-sizing: inherit;"> sometimes get disturbed.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">But wait, I am not sad because I enjoy eating my simple sabji & roti even if they are burnt.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">People said, now when you are married, it’s time to reach the next stop- motherhood,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Only give birth to a son to take the ‘vansh’ forward- it is something that they ensure I would.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">But I would like to ask them- what if their mother has also thought of the same?</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">In that case, they wouldn’t have been on this earth to pass comment and call me names.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">One of my relatives told me “no use of earning if you don’t have a child on whom you can spend money”,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">But here I want to tell her that my money funds my vacation and shopping spree.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">But yes, sometimes I face a problem when I need to carry huge shopping bags and take out a house key.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Being a woman, people advise me to go for safer career options like teaching,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">So that I can manage my house and continue working.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">But again, please don’t get angry if I tell you- As a corporate professional, my timings are not fixed,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">However, what remains fixed is- my home is well managed (at least I think so), I cook daily, and I am so quick.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I learnt to cook not just because as a woman it is primal,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I did it because it is necessary for survival.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Don’t measure my existence on the basis of my reproduction ability,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I respect elders and try not to harm others, so start appreciating me for my ‘high values <a href="http://www.moneytaryexpress.com/infertility-not-a-taboo/" style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: inherit; color: #f88c00; text-decoration-line: none; transition: color 0.35s ease 0s;">fertility</a>’.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Neither a superwoman nor a brave heart,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I am a simple woman who is both naïve and smart.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I </em>cry,<em style="box-sizing: inherit;"> I smile, I get angry on things,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">but being a human, I don’t think it is a sin.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">With no desire to defeat men and go above them,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I am at peace where I am.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">To me, men are not the matrix against which my success should be measured.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I am competing only with myself and that’s my success mantra which should be treasured.</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">I don’t want to be a woman who stands behind a successful man,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">The reason is simple-when my success is ‘mine’ only, why should credit be shared by man?</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">At last, just want to tell you, don’t associate me with PINK anymore,</em></div>
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<em style="box-sizing: inherit;">As an epitome of elegance & strength, I embrace all colours and it makes my personality galore.</em></div>
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<i>Though we both were in the same department, I hardly knew
much about Shreya, except that she was a 32-year old marketing head. I guess we
were so engrossed in our office work that we hardly got a chance to discuss anything
beyond files and meetings.</i></div>
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<i>I’d always thought that she had everything: A lucrative corporate job, high salary package, and a
handsome husband. Recently, she invited all of us at her new posh home.
Everything was perfect, or so I thought so! But something happened one day.</i>...<o:p></o:p></div>
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We all were
having great fun at the office Diwali party as after all we got a huge bonus
and (good) gifts. As I got up to get one more rasgulla, the HR came to announce
the three extra Diwali holidays! It was like a bonanza for us and coming from
our workaholic and snobby boss, it was unbelievable. I got so excited that I
put two extra rasgullas on my plate (or I made people believed that it was
“this” reason that I decided to eat more).<o:p></o:p></div>
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I was
searching for a chair where I could sit and eat my food peacefully when
suddenly I found Shreya standing in a corner. I did not know what made me go
there and talk to her, but my feet suddenly started walking towards her. It
could because she was the only person in this party who was not happy. <o:p></o:p></div>
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“Hey
Shreya, try this rasgulla it so yum”- I wanted to cheer her but what followed
next was what I did not expect. She suddenly burst into tears. Startled, I
tried to pacify her and took her to a secluded place, and when she felt a
little better, she poured her heart out to me. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Everything
was fantastic and going great in her life, except for the one thing... she was
not getting pregnant. <o:p></o:p></div>
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For me, she
was my role model who always had solutions to any business problem. But somehow
I did not realise that she was also a normal person, who was married and dealing
with the infertility problem like any other lady. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Shreya told
me that she and her husband had been trying for a baby for the last one year,
but nothing had happened. They also consulted doctors but all in vain. And so,
while everything was going well in the life, this thing was certainly not. And
this one thing that was what they desired for more than anything else. <o:p></o:p><br />
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“I can’t
think of anything else, except babies,” she said. “I would be sitting in
an office meeting, but I would be thinking about babies only. I remember once I
was at a marriage function when one of the guests innocently asked me to
suggest some good schools for her kids. As I was so much successful on a
professional front, she wanted my ‘expert’ advice and keen to know in which
school ‘my child’ goes. But when I told her that I did not have a child she
smiled and said, you are so lucky that you don’t have to take such tensions.
I gritted my teeth and smiled at her and then came back to home and cried for
three hours. I desperately wanted to tell her that these ‘tensions’ I would
love to take!”<o:p></o:p></div>
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I felt so
bad for her but then suddenly something shook my senses. I unintentionally also
did the same with her in the past when I showed some cute girl dresses online and
asked her to help me in choosing the one for my daughter. Without any hesitation,
she helped me but now I felt how much painful it was for her. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I was taken
aback— here I had worked next to this highly successful young woman who was going through a tough time. We’d
casually chatted on every topic, and I had this feeling that her life was
perfectly normal. But it was not true. Deep down she was feeling miserable and
just hiding it well. And then one day when everyone was happy, she could not
keep it to herself and poured it out and that too someone who was her junior. <o:p></o:p></div>
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At first, I
did not know what to say to her. Ironically, I always found her persona intimidated.
Next to such a successful career woman, I always found myself as an ordinary
office going mother. Little did I know that it was what I had that she valued
the most. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I was
travelling in my thoughts, when suddenly Shreya said that her mother-in-law
wanted her to take to a pundit to know when she will become pregnant. It was a
shock for me. A highly educated girl like Shreya believed in all these things.
But why you wanted to go there? And she replied, “I think this pundit will help
me.” On prodded further, she said her mother-in-law had threatened her that she would get her son remarried if she doesn't give her 'vaaris'. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I wanted to
yell at Shreya and warned her asked this superstitions but I could not mustered the courage to do so. My conscience did not allow me. She was only trying to save her marriage. I was victimised
by the same mindset when even after the five years of marriage, I was
childless. At that time, my mother-in-law took me to some temple in our village
where she asked me to stand in the holy river, behind the temple. It is
believed that if you stand there for a night, Devi Maa will bless you with a
child. I was standing there helpless throughout the night and praying for a
child, while my husband was sitting at home comfortably and watching India and
Pakistan match. Ironically, my daughter ‘pari’ came into my life exactly after
a year. I knew it was not because of Devi Maa but my mother-in-law was happy as she ‘won’. I did what my mother- in- law asked me to do so now I have
no right to say anything to people who believe in these superstitions. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Now I have
a girl child, my mother in law wants the next child to be a boy, so she has
asked me to keep fasts for this. Also, she has said that when you get pregnant
then take this ‘medicine’, which will ensure that your child is a boy. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I did not have
words to console Shreya. I wanted to protect her from superstitious beliefs which
only make a woman’s life hell, but I was helpless. I just stood up and walked to
the gate. But this time, I was not happy. Shreya was much higher than me in the
corporate world, but now she will also endure the same pain which I did. Now
she will also become the victim of superstitious beliefs. We both were two
individuals but somehow victimised by the same mindset according to which a
woman, irrespective of her status and education, is considered to be ‘complete’
only when she can become a mother.<br />
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<i>It was a blend of reality with imagination but in this story some plots are true. </i><br />
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-39395272656896973972016-09-04T03:11:00.004-07:002016-09-04T03:11:58.673-07:00Is there any IDEAL age to get married?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-US">This was the day which Shivani never wanted
to come to an end. She did not want to go back to her sweet home which was used
to her abode to get some peace and happiness after a long tiring job. She took
an auto outside her office and started her journey towards her home. Delhi- the
city which is known for its traffic jam suddenly became less populated. Unlike
other days, this time, there was no traffic on the road or may it was what
Shivani thought! Though it took 2 hours for her to reach the home, Shivani
still thought it’s too early!<b><o:p></o:p></b></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Standing on her doorstep, her hands were shivering.
She did not want to enter the home as she knew she was bombarded with the same
questions which she was facing from the last one week. With a heavy heart,
Shivani entered. Her father, who always welcomed her with a big smile, this
time, was in an angry mood. While Shivani entered the kitchen to get some
water, her mother started yelling and shouting, “Why do you not want to get
married?"<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Shivani was tired with the same question
every day. This time she decided to counter her parents. “Why should I get married,
when I don’t want to be”? Her parents were not ready for this reply, and so her
father angrily told her, “Next year, I will retire, and you are 26, so this is
the right time to get married otherwise soon you will not get any good boy. We
will give you so much education and freedom so that you get a well-educated boy,
but now you are misusing it”. Her mother
added, “Sharma’s daughter got married last month, she is younger to you.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Is there any ideal age to get married, when
Shivani was about to ask this question, suddenly her mother asked her, “Do you
have a boyfriend with whom you want to get married? Listen we will not allow
you to marry outside our caste."<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">These words were enough to shaken Shivani
who was working as a manager in an MNC. She always wanted to earn a name for
herself in the corporate world, and so she was not ready to take her mother’s
words. Tears started rolling on her cheeks when she stood up and left the room
and discussion in the mid-way. She came to her room when her father’s words fell
on her ears, “Iss ladki ko jayda padaana hi nhi chayihe tha. College khatam hote
hi shaadi kar dete to acha tha. Musibat hi khatam ho jati.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Shivani was in her room when she was thinking,
is getting married the only purpose in a girl’s life? All the education which
her parents gave her, it was just so that she could get a good groom. Girls
should get married below the age of 25 as it is good for her biological cycle-
we all heard this thing in our daily lives, but what is the ideal age for a
boy? No one dares to ask that!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Shivani wanted to achieve more success in her
life but her parent’s words were enough to shatter her. She decided to give up
and get married to the boy of her parent’s choice.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">This is the real story of one my friends.
Many of you would be against Shivani’s decision. Even I was not happy with her
when she came to my house to invite me for her wedding. I fought with her and
gave all advice which I heard on TV from our ‘women rights activists.” But when
Shivani left, I realized how much pressure a girl faced in her life when it
comes to her marriage. Sometimes it is the society which again and again
advised her to get married as she is getting older day by day and sometimes it
is the family, which emotionally blackmails her to get into marriage.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US">But no one understands that there is no ‘ideal’
age to get married. But yes, there should be an ‘ideal’ person for marriage.
Unless and until you don’t find him, don’t get married. Marriage is finding a soul
mate that would walk with you through ups and downs of life. But if you succumb
to ‘marriage pressure’ and get married just for the heck of it, you will be
leaving a life in which you would have a mate but not the soul mate!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-65179491231199966992015-07-08T05:07:00.002-07:002015-07-08T05:07:36.337-07:00To Mom, From Your “Little” (But Now Married) Girl!!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Time flies..yes it flies… Earlier it was you mom, who would
fed me once I came back from office. <i>Mom I am back, these words were enough to
alert you</i>. A hot piping tea with snacks was always there on the table waiting for me and my taste
buds. It was a daily routine for you which you ensured that you did it
dutifully. Today also I am having a tea but the only difference is that it
misses your warmth and love. As now I am married, I really miss ‘that’ tea
which is for me the world’s best beverage (at least Now).</div>
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Known as a lazy laid at home, I used to wake up at 6.30 in
morning as it was my habit to spend over 2 hours in bathing and dressing up
myself. I always reached office late and that too when I did not even had to do
anything at home. I know Mom, you will be proud to know as I wake up early in morning, make breakfast and also spend lesser time in getting up ready for the office. <b>Only 15 minutes!!!!!</b></div>
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You always made sure that I had my breakfast and lovingly
handed over me my lunch and one extra dabba for evening snacks. Today, when
every morning I pack two lunches- one for myself and one for hubby, it reminds
me of you. Your little girl has now grown up mom, as earlier it was you who was
making yummy food without complaining but now it is me who cook simple ghar ka khana for
hubby and that too after throwing so much tantrums</div>
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When I got engaged, I requested you ‘please mom- teach me
some household chores. I even do not know how to use the washing machinge.” And
your reply, “Wakeup early on Sunday and will teach you how to operate the
washing machine”. In your reign, that ‘Sunday’ never came. You will be amazed
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You always considered me as a five-year old and that used to
irritate me. Now I am missing those moments, pampering and your love. </div>
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I know I am someone’s wife and daughter-in-law but deep in
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-41325030340414594642015-07-07T04:55:00.001-07:002015-07-07T04:56:06.186-07:00Have You Tried Hair Spa? Go for it in Monsoon!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background: white; color: #3f3f3f; font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">The irritating Monsoon is
showing no mercy. Every year during this time, I struggled with rugged hair.
However, this year I am not dealing with this problem as my hair is shinning
and luscious. Wondering what magic mantra I have found out to keep them
beautiful? Then ladies, answer is- Hair
Spa. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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sunlight and pollution, it is important to take a good care of your hair. And
what’s better than a good spa? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #3f3f3f; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">It increases the hair growth</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #3f3f3f; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 11.5pt; line-height: 115%;">It is a quick relief from
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hair strands and scalp is a good conditioner. It takes care of all hair woes, including
dandruff, hair fall and lots more.</span></li>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-65941952454175105832015-07-06T23:55:00.001-07:002015-07-06T23:55:04.637-07:00Who Says Shahid Kapoor Can’t Marry a Younger Girl?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">“Oh my god Shahid Kapoor is marrying Mira Rajput. Really he has
broken my heart,” these words were enough to make me laugh on my elder ‘married’
sister who was never fond of movies (read Bollywood). Just to remind my sister her
marital status, I pointed my finger towards a photo frame hanging on the wall,
in which she was happily posing with her hubby. </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings;">J</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">“Hey dear, there is one common thing between ours and Shahid’s marriage-
Like me and my hubby, there is also a huge age gap between Shahid and his fiancée
age.” Astonished and enthralled at my sister’s finding, I started thinking why
there is so much hullabulla on the age gap of a couple? What is the ideal age
gap? Our so called Indian mentality says, a girl should always be younger than
her husband both in age and height. But is it a guarantee of a blissful married
life? A big NO!!! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;">To make a marriage work, it is imperative to invest your time and
emotions in it. It is crucial that the wavelength of both the partners should
be on the same level. Being a girl, I always find matured men attractive. What
made me to take my casual dating to the next level, i.e; marriage was the humbleness and caring attitude of my husband. Even my sister’s husband is much younger to her but it is only
he who has completely mentored her in every possible way. Be it personal and
professional front, there is not even a single field where she doesn’t seek her
hubby’s advice. It is all about finding a good partner, irrespective of the
age-gap.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;">Don’t forget, Shahid had a
breakup with Kareena Kapoor, who is elder to him. Now he has found a solace in
a much younger girl. Age doesn’t have any relevance in making any relationship
successful. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-88185290237736051292014-05-25T07:52:00.000-07:002014-05-25T08:04:52.579-07:00Let’s beat the heat!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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But let’s beat the heat with panache! Lets undiscovered some great ways to keep
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</b></span></span><!--[endif]--><b>Don’t act like a lazy bee</b>- Make it a habit to go
for a run every morning. I know you are a super busy guy and in today’s fast
running life, it is daunting to take out some time for running. But by making
small but inevitable changes to your routine, you can make running an
imperative part of your life. Make sure that you always run to the nearby metro
station or park your car a little away from your workplace so that you walk
towards it. It is advised to take stairs instead of lift. </div>
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to avoid backache problem due to long hours of travelling, you should
diligently follow the rules of sitting with your hips and make sure that your
chest is parallel to steering wheels, while driving the car. </div>
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belly to make its way which is caused due to sedentary jobs. So it is best to
do some light exercises which you should do at your office also. Sit straight
and try to stretch your legs with toes facing upward. Now you should try to
raise them to the angle of 30 & 40 and slowly put them below without
touching the ground. Now you need to repeat the same exercise for 15-20 times.
Apart from strengthen your back; this will also keep your belly in. </div>
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yourself active and healthy, opt for fresh fruits and juices during the day.
Keep fried and fat fattening food at bay. Choose low carb food like salads. </div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-18895881589240122432014-04-21T23:25:00.002-07:002016-10-09T02:58:19.372-07:004 ways to balance office-home life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Let's unveil some great ideas that can help you in striking a
seemingly impossible balance between office and home life-<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk9AhMVX_Ywsv5JW-5t2-vgmEUOKNRcu8AbRby6K04y0G5yamVejtM9UF68-DfINNkkjAdqUZTkc5JFZqGyL0ZDkbUrVIkSJ4pRwXZDGw1b2p_DDanWU5xSsAdZ5gVBPyoQuXWN8EhsE11/s1600/family-time.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjk9AhMVX_Ywsv5JW-5t2-vgmEUOKNRcu8AbRby6K04y0G5yamVejtM9UF68-DfINNkkjAdqUZTkc5JFZqGyL0ZDkbUrVIkSJ4pRwXZDGw1b2p_DDanWU5xSsAdZ5gVBPyoQuXWN8EhsE11/s1600/family-time.jpg" width="200" /></a><b>Don't over prioritize your office work</b>- You can't always choose
work over your family. There may be a time when taking your wife to a
nearby grocery shop is more important than completing the
presentation. There is no need to stress either about your personal
or professional lives. Though your earning decides your shopping
budget, you should always remember, “Money can buy materialistic
things but the smile which comes on the face of your dear ones when
you spend time with them, is completely fabulous.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBUwXuGtjLHxylP3L6rSlbuwe-vYrX40Fu-x0ZJnFoYC3AqDHvyJMosd19LF8QKovnnXY9NdtPJUGdMNQtfqod3hJXa9joa-cmCkoL9KbZRHYnO-hfar4-vQiPRHC0MZ22CiaRed1QFRH3/s1600/Enjoying-With-Friend-.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBUwXuGtjLHxylP3L6rSlbuwe-vYrX40Fu-x0ZJnFoYC3AqDHvyJMosd19LF8QKovnnXY9NdtPJUGdMNQtfqod3hJXa9joa-cmCkoL9KbZRHYnO-hfar4-vQiPRHC0MZ22CiaRed1QFRH3/s1600/Enjoying-With-Friend-.jpg" width="320" /></a><b>There is no set time or day to unwind yourself-</b> From whom you have
heard the rule that you need to wait for an entire week to chill with
friends? Oh common, you can spruce up any day of your life. Just call your friends on any weekday or perhaps on an easier day when there is less work pressure. Chat, drink and de- stress. You'll find yourself in a much calmer and nicer space to go home and face next day's office work. Also when you meet friends in the middle of the week without any planning, life becomes more exciting.<br />
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<b>Prioritize your needs</b>- “I can't be perfect after all I am not a
superman/superwoman”, say this line three times a day, and you will
find your life easy and calm. In trying to be best in every
situation, we forget that life is beyond that. It's ok if you want to
go out to meet your friends, leaving behind husband or kids at home.
Make life simple by not complicating it too much with your set
criteria.<br />
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<b>Stop worrying about every crisis</b>- The unpredictability of life
makes it more beautiful. Treat deadlines and home work just the way they are regular. Being exceptionally organized may be required, but it is not desirable. So never try so hard. Do what you can do to the best of your capability and even if you fail, don't fret!<br />
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-75289186505440435172014-04-04T04:35:00.000-07:002015-07-06T23:56:10.572-07:00Yes, you're the most beautiful person on the Earth!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<em>Do you know you are so beautiful? Do you know you are the
'original manufacturing piece'? Hey before jumping to any conclusion,
I want to clear that it has nothing to do with your waist line or
shining hair. This is that charm and shine you </em><em>are having</em><em>
inside that makes you beautiful person. Still you are doubting, well
I can give you hundred reasons for </em><em>believing me</em><em>.
Read on!</em><br />
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Your laugh makes you vivacious. Sometimes it mirages youth and
peace, sometimes it is to tease your colleague, sometimes it exudes
mischief. But when you laugh, you become so ravishing.
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It is really commendable to handle your emotions without breaking
down but sadly, not many people are blessed with a steel spinal cord.
But do you know when you break down, you become so attractive. Your
emotions are beautiful and every drop of tear which you shed makes
your beauty indescribable. The way you cry and feel such heartbreak
makes you lovable. Your courage makes you smile. The way you combat
hardships, get worst on your face, get up, brush the dirt and smile
again, walk again with the same pride. The dignity which your face is
showing makes you darling.
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You go all teary eyed when you see an old couple sitting on the
bench of the park, you make sure you give your seat in a bus to an
old person or a woman with a baby, you whole heatedly wish your
friends on their birthdays even when they forget yours, you protect a
puppy from coming below the wheels. Your thoughtfulness makes you
stunning. Your inner self says 'I am the most beautiful creature on
the world'.
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Well these are only some points which make you beautiful but the
list is endless. There are innumerable reasons which contribute in
your charm and your beauty is not a slave to your height, weight,
color or looks.
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You might be a career oriented woman or a
housewife, you are absolutely stunning in your own way. So flaunt
your beauty in your style as the world is dying to meet the most
dazzling beauty!<br />
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<b><i>Congratulations on being the most beautiful lady in the world!</i></b></div>
reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-8815268231012224942014-03-25T23:49:00.000-07:002014-03-25T23:49:07.019-07:00Romantic things that husbands do unknowingly!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Those who thing women are tough to please, think again. You don't
need to buy costly gifts to pamper your ladylove. In fact, small
gestures like hug, smile, kiss are enough to bring a smile on her
face. Shocked? Don't be! For women, romance is not confined only to
red roses, diamond jewelery or candle-light dinner. Love is something
which is more than that. It can be anything from simple praise words
to helping her in the kitchen. So, let's find out what more you can
do to make her feel special-<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgm8UcTpX2l-oIHz-PAbor_qfMwrJqntpZG7XtWTyAvzX48TGADdM0eWKFe1baUkPFtqQbf4sVmuh_HZaXBKjLSPNoFACdZowpoyLkEloMwh0ppOjljVPTsqRiMuLW8Qtj5_M6oKiIcHftk/s1600/couple-hugging-each-other-bench.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgm8UcTpX2l-oIHz-PAbor_qfMwrJqntpZG7XtWTyAvzX48TGADdM0eWKFe1baUkPFtqQbf4sVmuh_HZaXBKjLSPNoFACdZowpoyLkEloMwh0ppOjljVPTsqRiMuLW8Qtj5_M6oKiIcHftk/s1600/couple-hugging-each-other-bench.jpg" height="178" width="320" /></a><b>Unanticipated hugs</b>- That sudden hug you give her when she is
cooking in kitchen or busy ready something or any other time, sways
her away. In fact, whenever you give a morning kiss on her forehead
when she is half sleeping, it gives a good start to her day.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6Q_oDGWU3Lxky0wdg_5B3X-gjOHTyPaf1ICXPT6I4jnV3E8yOvWIzDMPM-ek0Y0cagVE-tj-RMJl9aQ_68HyA7ZQNxoDtIAMCgTGKY3orYItGpYHRS-K2OhMNlBMnXKw5BxyWphzDcj_g/s1600/how+way+your+day.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6Q_oDGWU3Lxky0wdg_5B3X-gjOHTyPaf1ICXPT6I4jnV3E8yOvWIzDMPM-ek0Y0cagVE-tj-RMJl9aQ_68HyA7ZQNxoDtIAMCgTGKY3orYItGpYHRS-K2OhMNlBMnXKw5BxyWphzDcj_g/s1600/how+way+your+day.jpg" height="213" width="320" /></a><b>Helping in kitchen</b>- Now, it has been proved. Those men who help
their partners in kitchen are considered to be more sexy. Women known
that men usually don't like to work in kitchen and therefore, when
they see you right next to them in the kitchen, doing dishes,
preparing salads, chopping vegetables, their heart seems to brim with
happiness and joy. This gesture is so endearing that they fall head
over heels in love all over again.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh74RpEE2YFsbk3FO9o8Rw1Y1-5jR_5raRQ8tPfxF0Ee9aOhffuM04nGanJL9SSpRqYXi97iaEb_QISFKpHi_CtLWGjVipiMKwdvs1-ZlgZXkiiYOYxMVX41jUsBBz-D-CwEmoF1xzmXrvl/s1600/article-20143795052618326000.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh74RpEE2YFsbk3FO9o8Rw1Y1-5jR_5raRQ8tPfxF0Ee9aOhffuM04nGanJL9SSpRqYXi97iaEb_QISFKpHi_CtLWGjVipiMKwdvs1-ZlgZXkiiYOYxMVX41jUsBBz-D-CwEmoF1xzmXrvl/s1600/article-20143795052618326000.jpg" height="320" width="299" /></a><b>Making the bed</b>- This is something that she can expect from you.
After hectic office schedule, household chores and the kids, she is
exhausted, after all she is also a human being like you and not a
machine! So, when she finds that the bed is all done and tidied,
ready to snuggle in the neatly laid bed sheets, her joy sees no
limit.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuNmNA59idFxYAv7MshUadjCMKF2FGMD8jXVQV2Ydlyd7Um272xw5M5h3s9RT6kSiWsHDPG7Tn5MKODOk_JxAxUsZr6vyLiZOm8gloH-oMJRWAabgxgZ0PuY3QhSfTXc8yfOpTSZkZ5-ua/s1600/homework-dad-son-alamy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuNmNA59idFxYAv7MshUadjCMKF2FGMD8jXVQV2Ydlyd7Um272xw5M5h3s9RT6kSiWsHDPG7Tn5MKODOk_JxAxUsZr6vyLiZOm8gloH-oMJRWAabgxgZ0PuY3QhSfTXc8yfOpTSZkZ5-ua/s1600/homework-dad-son-alamy.jpg" height="213" width="320" /></a><br />
<b>Helping kids in their studies</b>- Those who have created the
character of a superman must be suffered from a 'dangerous manly
syndrome'. After all, all the hard works a woman put can even put a
superman to a shame! Therefore, when you look after the kids, help
them in their homework and school projects and read bedtime stories, you not only become the world's most favorite father but also earn brownie points in the eyes of your wife. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFSgPQDSLT6KQ9csriCm3PnweCpmaUvphILCWNzaN0Ta65pu4WLcOQd7IfORDXLvgRhwJuzc0qbFw1YYKDNge18Bi1ZNGQvlTNbN_d42n8dZYNUf-f0tq7-_EldHIEhIIpVOQhhT6_1vcL/s1600/family-shopping.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFSgPQDSLT6KQ9csriCm3PnweCpmaUvphILCWNzaN0Ta65pu4WLcOQd7IfORDXLvgRhwJuzc0qbFw1YYKDNge18Bi1ZNGQvlTNbN_d42n8dZYNUf-f0tq7-_EldHIEhIIpVOQhhT6_1vcL/s1600/family-shopping.jpg" height="221" width="320" /></a><b>Accompany her to a shopping</b>- Yes, women love the idea of spending
their spouse money on her favorite shoes, dresses (with pun
intended!) but she enjoys more when you accompany her to a shopping.
It need not to be for costly dress, just notice the smile and sparkle
in her eyes when you join her even for the household shopping. And in
a shopping store, when you unexpectedly hold her hand, love hormones
suddenly shoot up!<br />
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<b>Complement your wife</b>- 'My wife is a good homemaker', 'My wife is
very supportive', 'She has well adjusted in my home', when you give
these complements to her in front of family and friends, she feels
proud that you value and respect what she does for you. <br />
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<b>Taking care of her when she is unwell</b>- Those times when she is
unwell and you take leave from the office to take care of her, she
feels blessed. When you remember every medicine of hers, 'order' her
to take rest, cook meal and simply sit besides her & taking her
hands in yours, she finds it good to fall ill!</div>
reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-64805326195732670562014-02-24T22:04:00.000-08:002014-02-24T22:04:37.931-08:00Arranged Marriage-Refrain from asking 5 Questions In The First Meeting<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Undoubtedly, arranged marriages are not an easy thing to start
with. The first meeting is the series of awkward meeting,
expressions, shyness and silence. You can never be sure what to say
and what to underplay in your conversations with the other party. The
entire process becomes uncontrollable when one party asks irrelevant
questions. To save you from this trouble, we have listed down 5
questions which you should never ask in the first meeting if you are
going for an arranged marriage-<br />
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her age and the man his salary'. However, there is a twist in the
story. Even guys should understand that working women would not like
the idea of telling their salary at first meeting. The question makes
sense that you give more priority to money.<br />
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<b>Did you have any past relation?</b> Many people ask this question in
the hope of getting 'No' reply. Though, honesty is the prime
ingredient of a successful relationship but such personal question
should be left for the time when you both become more familiar and
comfortable in each others company.<br />
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indispensable but asking this question out rightly at a first meeting
is completely no-no. If the answer of this question really matters to
you then you should rephrase it in a much better way. Like ask about
his/her hobbies or likes/dislikes as this will give you an idea about
their lifestyle. <br />
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you are becoming conscious and little bit scary, it doesn't mean that
you will start asking absolutely irrelevant questions. If a person is
going for an arranged marriage then obviously they would have met
quite a few people before meeting you and may meet some more even
after you. So, never ask this question as this has good chances of
getting backfired.<br />
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<b>Will you cook everyday?</b> Are you looking for a spouse or a cook?
You are here to understand the person in a better way and not to
discuss the household chores. It is really demeaning to ask the
question to a woman. Especially for a working woman, it is not
possible to come back home after work and then cook. If you yourself can't cook after returning back from office then you should not expect it from the other person.<br />
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When you ask wrong question then you end up making a fool of
yourself only. So it is best to refrain yourself from asking
inconsequential questions and ensure that you find a prospective
partner.</div>
reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-26980730364576271712014-02-14T02:27:00.001-08:002014-02-14T02:27:26.308-08:00Keep Saying “I Love You” to your partner for a happy marriage<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHLZ5hsIHCDx442P3jajnj3n7fMkL71Gfs8fMZDnJhcq3cMeXIYSZxd6aySmy43xpTf12U-R9FWQLuA5VoF5bOsGpSzoZSlzYL-s_UMi0bTPnybFeyKOIwcE_NRF_0Mc5Psta39cAyOuif/s1600/happy-couples.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHLZ5hsIHCDx442P3jajnj3n7fMkL71Gfs8fMZDnJhcq3cMeXIYSZxd6aySmy43xpTf12U-R9FWQLuA5VoF5bOsGpSzoZSlzYL-s_UMi0bTPnybFeyKOIwcE_NRF_0Mc5Psta39cAyOuif/s1600/happy-couples.jpg" height="212" width="320" /></a><em><span style="font-style: normal;">The study conducted by
OnePoll.com has revealed that kissing and telling your partner "I
</span></em><em><span style="font-style: normal;">love you</span></em><em><span style="font-style: normal;">"
ten times a week is the secret mantra of a happy marriage.</span></em><br /><br />The
survey results also say that having three arguments a month also
strengthens the relation and more importantly, a couple must be able
to say sorry and couples should be able to each other's mistakes.
Also, in perfect marriage, couples make love three times a week and
spend seven nights a month cuddled up in front of the television.
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Getting married is not a daunting task but it takes a lot of
commitment and efforts to keep your marriage a perfect one. If two
people are not ready to accept each other unconditionally, they will
surely find it difficult to keep their marriage life long lasting.<br />
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-48970781287870712582014-02-07T04:46:00.001-08:002014-02-07T04:46:30.331-08:00Make the “Valentine week” special....<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Finally it has arrived! The year long wait for the love bugs is
now over with the onset of Valentine week. Every day of the week
gives you ample of reasons to celebrate love and togetherness. So,
capitalize the most of it and acknowledge your love for your beloved.
If you curious to know how to make tickle the love bone of your
beloved, you have certainly landed on the right page. Let's take it
step by step and know how to commemorate every day of the love week- <br />
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<b>February 7- Rose Day
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The great symbol of love, a red rose, is perfect to kick start the
Valentine week. Take a beautiful bouquet of roses to make your
beloved feel special. If you have some budget constraints, just one
red rose is more than enough to convey your feelings and emotions,
which even costliest items would not be able to do so. Even if you
want to drop a hint to someone whom you have just met or want to
pamper your beloved with a special gesture, this is the best day to
do so.<br />
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<b>February 8- Propose Day</b><br />
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Yes, this is the awesome day to confess your feelings for your
sweetheart. I personally like this day, because if the fire is same
on both sides, you will get a warm answer, but if there is only one
side love, the other person will never scold you. After all it is a
propose day! But wait a minute, who says it is a day meant for
unmarried people. Even if you are married, you can relive 'those'
special moments by again proposing your spouse for marriage. Married
couples can renew their vows. If you cannot think of anything else,
go for the romantic candle-light dinner date. <br />
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<b>February 9-
Chocolate Day</b></div>
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<em><span style="font-style: normal;">Chocolates add more love to
the already 'sugary' relationship. Rather than gifting a box of
chocolates, try to bake a chocolate cake for your beloved. (Believe
me, blending of love and chocolate is indeed a sinful combination,
and rapture on each other and not just your chocolate cake)</span></em><br />
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<b>February 10- Teddy Day</b><br />
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Though, some may find it cliched, but a
sweet teddy bear is an impeccable gift to cuddle onto whenever you
will miss your beloved. This gift can live with you in your room and
can always remind you of that 'special' person you have in your life.
Though teddies are considered to be perfect gift option for girls,
but even men also like to have it. <br />
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<b>February 11- Promise Day</b><br />
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“I never make a promise, I don't intend to keep, so whenever I
say forever, forever is what I mean” Doesn't it sum up the need to
keep promises for each other?. This and such nice quotes are perfect
for this day. If you truly love the person then why should you afraid
from expressing it? Make it unique or special by promising something
really special to them under the moonlight or at the time when you
both are together over the candle-light dinner. <br />
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<b>February 12- Hug Day</b><br />
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Nothing can perfectly convey your emotions as a nice and tight
hug. Whether you plan to hug your partner each time or if it is a
spontaneous casual hug, you should make them feel special. So it is a
nice idea to put all your warmth and feelings in a hug and make it comes from the heart. On this special day, plan an exciting picnic with your partner and make it fun or casual by playing exciting games and eating out. Don't miss any opportunity to hug your darling. <br />
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<b>February 13- Kiss Day</b><br />
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It is a kiss day so who says you need fancy and expensive set up
to live this day? Dig your heart in a home cooked meal, clink wine
and play some funny but lovely games. As the day is approaching to an
end, seal it with a passionate kiss. <br />
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-33571076463660646702014-01-26T21:19:00.000-08:002014-01-26T21:19:16.592-08:00Reignite your marriage even after parenthood<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It's now easy to keep the spark alive in your relation even after
becoming parents. Read in to know how<br />
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Well we agree it's not an easy task to keep the chemistry going
once there's is the pit-a-pat of a little angel's feet in the house.
There's chores to be attended to, dishes to be washed, food to be
cooked and sleep to catch up. And this 'vicious' cycle begins all
over again. But even in amidst of 'so many' work to be attended,
being man and woman is not altogether impossible either. Your child
is the culmination of your love so why should you make him a reason
of losing passion and sheen in your relation? Read on to know how to
revive your love even after enjoying parenthood.
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<b>Love at the doorstep</b>- You are back after a long tiring day and
your toddler is eagerly waiting at the doorstep to get in your arms.
Many relationship experts opine that a healthy bond between mom and
dad is the foundation stone of a peaceful home and that too starts at
the entrance gate. Sweep your child in your arm and head straight to
your spouse and land a peck on his/her cheek. This will silently
convey to your partner that he/she is still your top priority. Plus,
your child will glow in the love that you both will share.<br />
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<b>Again become a couple</b>- The sudden realization of parenting often
becomes a burden and leaves you too tired to share anything more than
a hug by the end of the day. But it is crucial to re-ignite your love
so keep up the flirt quotient high throughout the day. The gentle
touch, kiss/hug or caress on the neck won't only keep the spark of
romance alive but will also tell your kids that marriage isn't not
only about responsibilities.<br />
Relax- True, he put dirty socks on the bed and she didn't remember
to turn off the gas. But is shouting about every little oversight
going to work for you? Learn when should you let go off things. There
are more bigger (when I am saying bigger, believe me its really
bigger) things to take care of. Let the dishes be tomorrow’s
problem. Whenever, you fume with anger, think for a minute; will this
really matter two years down the line? If the answer comes negative,
you know it is good to stop now.<br />
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<b>Catch up your old time</b>- Remember the old friends you used to have
or those favorite hangouts. Your friends may be waiting to hear from
you (probably not the new thing your kid learnt). Catch a movie or
revisit your favorite place again. Take up a class you always wanted
to and also encourage your partner to do the same. Work around each
others time. Believe me when you will pamper yourself, you will
rediscover yourself and that will make you more lovable!
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-89509484827281139772014-01-22T02:48:00.003-08:002014-01-22T02:48:56.629-08:00Woes of the newly married women!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaKxvH_0udFi_ViP9yQ8r-o8HQTzYVE56c991hENRX62BxI5HugtfgqxiWOg5bgVWg43Fp6Ft5y7J0lQwEwx72GuiLncEh0cfKClmJ4QJbSyAeg6Pp0lHXjGJ6bL5qiWJk6Clq8kkBSXlA/s1600/worried-woman-clocks_300.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaKxvH_0udFi_ViP9yQ8r-o8HQTzYVE56c991hENRX62BxI5HugtfgqxiWOg5bgVWg43Fp6Ft5y7J0lQwEwx72GuiLncEh0cfKClmJ4QJbSyAeg6Pp0lHXjGJ6bL5qiWJk6Clq8kkBSXlA/s1600/worried-woman-clocks_300.jpg" height="320" width="268" /></a>There is nothing more beautiful than being able to spend the rest
of your life with the person you find truly compatible. However,
marriage is no longer remains the sole aim of a girl's aim. Gone are
those days when parents wanted their daughters to get married by the
age of 20-22 years and mouled herself according to her in laws
lifestyle.<br />
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Of late, things like high education, financial stability, career
prospects, etc., are also enjoying the prime importance on the
priorities list of a woman. Although, these changes have made
contemporary women independent but sadly, it is still not a change
that is readily accepted in a traditional family.<br />
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Lets' delve deep
into some impending problems that a new bride faces in today's
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<b>Getting no time to learn or improve culinary skills</b>- Yes, it is
true because I can also relate myself to this situation as even after
years of marriage, I am still learning how to cook food. No matter
how modern a family claims to be, they always want their daughter in
law to show her cooking expertise. Even Aishwarya Rai cooked halwa
for her in laws after her marriage! But nowadays, as girls are
getting busier in their academic and professional lives, they hardly
get time to work on their culinary. Lack of culinary skills is one of
the biggest (or I should say, dangerous) challenges that a woman can
face. I still forget what spices I need to add in which dal or sabji.
Though, many households hire help in the kitchen but they still hold
high expectations from their daughter in law. Unfortunately, this
doesn't happen only in joint families. Even in nuclear families,
husband wants their wife to cook at least some times, not every
second day.<br />
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<b>Making adjustments with in-laws</b>- Though marriage demands lot of
adjustments but if you get married into a conventional family, even
the self-dependent and headstrong woman in you might fight it
difficult to compromise on new family's lifestyle. Especially your
food habits, your clothing style, your work timings and many other
things, you may find daunting to change to match your in-laws
preferences. No matter how understanding your in-laws are, there can
still be some things that they want you to change. So be ready for
that!<br />
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<b>Infringement of personal space</b>- As soon as you change from Miss to
Mrs, you will feel the burden of responsibility of every family
member as well as your husband. Whether you are in a joint family or
nuclear family, you might have to visit your in-laws frequently or
they recurring visit you. The sudden realization of responsibilities
after spending years under the protective shelter of your parents can
be little intimidating. Juggling your personal life with professional
commitments can leave you with no 'me' time.<br />
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expectations your better half and your in-laws might have from you
can be really scary. If you panic, it can adversely affect your
married life. There are some particular expectations also which are
specific to every house. Like, keeping fasts,<br />
doing puja in different
manner, etc. Though look like routine, but they might come as
unpleasant surprises for some girls. <br />
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In case you are also facing any of the above listed problems, it
is best to stay calm and talk to your in-laws. A good discussion can
resolve even the most trickiest problem!<br />
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Undoubtedly Katrina Kaif is a diva. She
has enthralled once and all with her flawless beauty, charming eyes,
perfect figure and mesmerizing looks. Her fascination has not made
just men but even women go gaga. So, this time, I am unveiling some
beauty tips for soon-to-be brides so that you can cast your aroma on
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<b>Her secret to healthy skin</b>- Katrina
firmly believes that in order to get a beautiful and glowing skin,
you should have 4-5 glasses of water every morning. This helps in
detoxifying your body and also helps in blood circulation. Also, once
in a while, it is crucial to pamper your body with massages and
facials as these help in increasing blood circulation and make your
skin glowing.</div>
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<b>Her secret to makeup</b>- Katrina doesn't
appreciate the idea of wearing too much makeup. A concealer is a nice
choice as it allows skin to breathe. To combat any beauty
emergencies, she uses mineral mud masks as they quickly remove skin
impurities. Katrina says that never hit the bed with makeup on. Also,
to produce a magical effect to the eyes, this 'barbie doll' prefers
to use a lot of kohl and mascara. She says that it helps in uplifting
the face and makes eyes more expressive. A good lip gloss can make
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<b>Her secret to luscious hair</b>- As the
actress needs to try various hairstyles to suit her movie character,
she does deep conditioning once a week.</div>
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<b>Her exercise tips</b>- Katrina believes
that it is imperative to do exercise to maintain healthy body.
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Swimming, cycling , jogging and dancing are good exercises to get a
toned figure.
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<b>Her diet</b>- She avoids carbohydrates &
empty calories and prefers to eat food enriched in iron, vitamins and
proteins. She eats lot of fresh fruits and salads in between her
meals as this keeps her body healthy. </div>
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<strong>Start today! Work out, enjoy
balanced food, pamper your skin, maintain good lifestyle, put the
right makeup and be a beauty </strong><strong>queen</strong><strong>
yourself.</strong></div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-22182340632557497582014-01-17T04:56:00.000-08:002014-01-17T04:56:10.408-08:00Must Haves “True Desi Dishes” For An Opulent Indian Wedding<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The best way to make your marriage memorable for your guests is by
giving them delectable wedding flavors. But another 'tasty' way to
etch your wedding moments in their minds for a long time is by
treating their taste buds with sumptuous taste. The gourmand in them
will surely talk about it for a quite long time. Well, this time we
suggest you to ditch the western dishes and explore Indian cuisines
for the wedding. If you are short of great ideas, take a look here-
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<b>Delhi's papri/aloo chaat</b><br />
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even a 'figure-conscious' person on his toes. The name is enough to
tickle the taste buds. The 'Dilli' chart encompasses yummy tikkis,
papdi chaat and golgappe.<br />
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- This is one of the most refreshing
deserts. Made of sweetened yogurt and garnished with saffron and
cardamoms, this is the most loved dish of Bengali, equally adorned
throughout the world.
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cooked in innumerable spices in an earthen pot is simply
irresistible. This royal dish is available in both veg and non-veg
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non-vegetarian kababs from the land of Nawabs are worldwide
acclaimed. The intense incense of vegetables and delectable spices
barbequed and splurged with yummy sauces are a savory for anybody who
loves to enjoy this royal treat.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJLi5v237WwprU6PG38QKAc4QfhhRoPq-FfbSwrhs34yvhHh2oSjw3jX1LF-nGb1gyIa3RX6xn67aD4Uznp7alRSzgWkBaMS4q_kEuGlo2Au3pkHP2o8rKkvQxh4xgV3cuQEzjSAHrt6oy/s1600/Capture.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJLi5v237WwprU6PG38QKAc4QfhhRoPq-FfbSwrhs34yvhHh2oSjw3jX1LF-nGb1gyIa3RX6xn67aD4Uznp7alRSzgWkBaMS4q_kEuGlo2Au3pkHP2o8rKkvQxh4xgV3cuQEzjSAHrt6oy/s1600/Capture.PNG" height="129" width="200" /></a>Lentils fried in desi ghee<strong> </strong>and baked wheat puffs from the land of Maharajas, are the luscious fillers. The intense aroma is sure to mesmerize your guests.<br />
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<b>Banarasi Paan</b><br />
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- Who can forget
the richness and exotic fragrance of the banarasi paan? Give an
overwhelming finale to the food ensembles with humble paan, directly
from the city of Banaras. </div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-35000496702351002302014-01-09T04:26:00.000-08:002014-01-09T04:27:25.218-08:00Show Off your Glasses On Your Wedding Day!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkt-NKo_o7-LSVwT8mj-_KfcmtHDpeiB4-dIqTMGliU2IfxJZdely6LmmahZyLeJcLzhuH-PWGkm1KGdPIlxjtL_xEku2T6LKNe7jlOoCOtGmfonYBQDA9FjGLv27pz9f0KNAXnt3OGbBC/s1600/Brides_in_Glasses_Grooms_in_Glasses_ClaryPhoto_Wedding_Inspiration_Before_the_Big_Day_Wedding_Blog_057.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkt-NKo_o7-LSVwT8mj-_KfcmtHDpeiB4-dIqTMGliU2IfxJZdely6LmmahZyLeJcLzhuH-PWGkm1KGdPIlxjtL_xEku2T6LKNe7jlOoCOtGmfonYBQDA9FjGLv27pz9f0KNAXnt3OGbBC/s1600/Brides_in_Glasses_Grooms_in_Glasses_ClaryPhoto_Wedding_Inspiration_Before_the_Big_Day_Wedding_Blog_057.jpg" height="242" width="320" /></a>No power in the world can restrain me
from admitting 'Yes I have a hugeeee crush on my glasses! (I know the
number of 'e' can tell you the depthness of my love for my glasses).
O god I am so big fan of glasses that I can even tell you the date
when I was introduced to my love 20. March 2000. I know, I may sound
like an insane but that is the subtle testimonial of my love to my
specs. Like all oldies, my mother and aunt also perturbed my idea of
wearing glasses on my wedding day. I was sure to receive this jaw
breaking response from you but in fact, in reality, it was true that
I was tenacious of my decision and so, my family surrendered to me
and my specs :) But I think God hated that I covered his creation
with human made item, so he whipped me and I surrendered to my
friends request, who threatened to boycott my wedding if I would be a
spectacle bride. However, my silly friends statements shouldn't mean
that you should completely avoid your glasses on your d-day. Infact,
my research in to brides who wear glasses persuade me to jot down a
few things, which should you check-</div>
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<li><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
If you are apprehensive in anyway
about looking your best in your wedding photographs by putting on
your glasses, talk to your wedding photographer. I am sure he will
be able to put you at ease by giving you the opportunity of some
per-wedding shots.</div>
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If there is a plan to wear a veil
that will sit around your face then make sure the delicate fabric
won't snag on the edge of your specs.
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</li>
<li><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Think of your glasses as an extra
accessory like any other jewelery and accessory. I believe in
simplicity and so do you.
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</ul>
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<i><u>Wear that pair of glasses that
make you look comfortable</u></i></div>
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If that means, your regular one-bravo!
However, if the style of your regular one is something that bothers
you or goes completely anti to your wedding wardrobe then why not
gift yourself a new pair of specs?
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It is not an astounding response from my end, but seeing a bride
in glasses always make me smile. It shows that the girl is
comfortable in her skin. Aren't the best photos are clicked where the
subject is completely at ease after all?</div>
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I'm on a mission to prove that wearing
glasses on your wedding day is totally a cool thing to do and there
is nothing to hype. So, you should not ought to be worry in advance
of your nuptial. Though it is rare to find a bride in glasses but I
am really keen to know what our readers think.</div>
reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-7462692342298416472014-01-07T00:57:00.000-08:002014-01-07T00:57:03.409-08:00Confused by your man's behavior? Things Your Guy Wants You To Know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHu4TY6d0Z4lr33BqC1BDXnT39u7z8ifFY1Fb9zHRxpLIRWjzjVqLNCHf56d4ivx69xrXc8AIcnmGZquePWALWi8NKaoRvpsWPk_Mp8LEYxdcfryMXVzS9QKG9JklFOuuqHlxwa7KWXLVT/s1600/Girl_Proposing_Boy_1348153465.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHu4TY6d0Z4lr33BqC1BDXnT39u7z8ifFY1Fb9zHRxpLIRWjzjVqLNCHf56d4ivx69xrXc8AIcnmGZquePWALWi8NKaoRvpsWPk_Mp8LEYxdcfryMXVzS9QKG9JklFOuuqHlxwa7KWXLVT/s1600/Girl_Proposing_Boy_1348153465.jpg" height="212" width="320" /></a>Apart from the physicality, what is the difference between a man
and woman? The latter is expressive while the former takes its own
sweet time before divulging things! I know it is hard to know what
lies beneath man's mind and heart. But don't worry, girls, I would
help you in knowing your man in a much better way.
<br />
<u>Here is what your man would like you to know</u><br />
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li>He also loves chocolates- Men may hide their emotions and anxiety
but there are moments when they also get teary-eyed. So, at this time
offer them a chocolate and a tight hug, it will definitely make them
happy. </li>
</ul>
<ul style="text-align: left;">
<li>They want you to express love- Whether it's a warm hug, kiss or
simply holding hands, men want you to show them how much you love and
what you are feeling without holding back.
</li>
<li>He is not a mind reader, so don't expect him to read your mind- He
is not an astrologer or a mind reader who can easily interpret what
is going on in your mind. It has been seen that women expect their
partner to be mind readers and their explanation for everything
arises from the fact that if a guy is in true love with them then it
should also be in tune with their changing emotions and moods. Sorry
girls, it is not unfair. After all, why you want your partner to know
everything without you uttering a single word, when you can't
reciprocate the same behavior? So, speak up when something is
bothering you and discuss with your partner.</li>
<li>Don't act like a
damsel in distress- A true man respects his lady love, value her
independence and appreciate the fact that she is not a doormat but an
intelligent and self-dependent person. Someone, who hold his hand in
times of troubles and take charge of situation when nothing is going
smoothly.
</li>
</ul>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-46391368248923428872013-12-31T01:04:00.002-08:002013-12-31T01:06:44.544-08:00Welcome The Year 2014 Romantically!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<i>Who says New Year celebration only
means hullabaloo, partying hard outdoors? Well, this time, I have
pledged to change your this 'mindset'. </i>
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As the clock is ticking to 2014, it is
the time to enjoy, relax and unwind yourself. Anticipating a new year
can be a perfect time for some love too (oh...blushing...) So,
whether you have been married for a decade or you are the new entrant
in the 'married club' or getting along with a new love, welcoming the
New Year in the cosy arms of your partner can be great fun and
pleasurable too! At 11.59 pm on December 31, get the wine or juice
ready and hunker down for a long night of love, kisses as the
countdown is just about to start. With these romantic new year's eve
celebration ideas, you're sure to maintain the right mood for the
night and for the next 365 days too!</div>
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Raise a toast anywhere- You must be
knowing a couple of people who opine that the key to a New Year's eve
is the perfect setting. One of my couple friends hates the idea of
staying indoor for celebration. But in my opinion, you don't need to
travel to London or Goa to stage a New Year interlude as you can
raise a toast anywhere. You simply need to have a bottle of
champagne, two glasses and your partner. To boost the romance
quotient even more high, read on.
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Enjoy an elegant dining- Instead of
partying with thousand others, reserve the evening for just the two
of you. Either cook a meal together or order your favourites from
outside. Set the table with candles and your finest dish ware. Make
sure that you have got a dessert ready. Dress beautifully in your
best outfit, keep a best hairdo and put on your best jewellery. Enjoy
a sumptuous dinner together. Hey, stop often to wink and stare at
each other.
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Revel your seductive side- Even if this
year you're not planning to go anywhere on New Year's eve, don't deny
yourself the pleasure of wearing something sexy or little
flirtatious. Whether it's a sparkly dress or red lipstick, your guy
will surely notice and appreciate your efforts.
</div>
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<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Pajama Party exclusively for two- Spend
the New Year eve day in your pyjama. Indulge into a pillow fight,
insert the notes into the balloons before blowing them up. Your
partner will be surprised to discover them later. Play romantic
numbers and dance the night away.
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Picnic with the stars- There is another
romantic celebration idea waiting for you. Prepare a basket full of
gourmets, add champagne with two glasses and your basket is done.
Spread a blanket beneath you and bring a warm sized big blanket for
you and your partner to wrap together for a warmth. Add candles and
lanterns around your sleeping place to flicker in the dark. Gazing
stars with your partner is a romantic way to give a final bid to the
2013.
</div>
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<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Sail to the moonlight- Rent a small
rowing boat enough for two of you to sit face to face. In the
beautiful and charming pearly moonlight, raise a toast for the year
2014 and all your dreams & aspirations. Don't forget to carry
warm blankets and a basket filled with hidden seductive gourmets.</div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-88164759534199344552013-12-29T23:00:00.000-08:002013-12-31T01:01:26.572-08:00How To break the ice in an arranged marriage: Rules to abide by<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Meet, arrange and go......easier said
than done. Though in today's technology driven world, arranged
marriage may feel like an old fashioned concept but there is one
section of people who still believe in this concept. I am married, so
I can say it with surety (experience counts phews...), whether your
partner is chosen by you or your parents, as a couple you are bound
to go ups and downs. It's just that if it's an arranged wedding, it
may take considerably a longer time to understand your partner. If
you are about to hitch in an arranged marriage, here are some points
which you should keep in your mind to understand your partner:</div>
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<b>Pre marital fidgets</b>- Pre-marital
fidgets or jitters are common among couples who opt for an arranged
marriage. If you're also experiencing the same then it is important
to know the cause of anxiety. Among the most possible reasons is the
fear of sharing your space with completely unknown person. Then of
course, there are other fears also like how to deal with a completely
new family, how much you'd have to make adjustments in your living
style to adapt to their thoughts and habits. The best and easiest way
to overcome this is by frequently interacting with your future
spouse. It will put you at ease and will finally create better
understandings between the two of you.
</div>
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<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
<b>Be always ready to adjustments</b>- Whether it
is love or arranged, marriage is all about making adjustments to each
other living styles. Though I have a love marriage but that doesn’t
restrain me from accepting that in an arranged marriage there are
more responsibilities and expectations. Your partner may not have
disclosed complete information about his/her likes or dislikes or
your in-laws may not be following the same values and living style.
As a result, you may always be constantly corrected about the ways in
which things should be done in the house. Don't panic and just relax!
Even after 2 years of love marriage, I am still facing this problem
as me and husband's family has completely different living style.
Starting from food, dresses, manners to eating habits, I too had to
make adjustments to gel with my new family. But I don't mind as long
as my husband is with me to support me!
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Adjustment is the name of the game. You
should have a frank talk with your partner, where you should discuss
all your woes and try to find a middle way to sort out things without
outraging values of new family. If you may feel the pressure of
adjusting to the new family, your in-laws may also feeling the same
pressure of accepting you as the part of the family. So, it is
advised that you should not take rude remarks of your partner or new
family too seriously in the initial days of marriage and never follow
the tit for tat philosophy. </div>
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<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Keep a distance from troublemakers and
don't complain to your partner about his/her family. Your behaviour
should give a message to your partner that you want to adjust in
his/her family and need their support. Remember your spouse is as
confused as you are.</div>
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<b>Finally, wave the magic wand</b>- Love is
the medicine of any trouble. In an arranged marriage, you may not
fall in love in few meetings. But don't worry, love takes its own
time to blossom. But even if you have already developed feelings,
don't expect from your partner to immediately reciprocate the same
feelings. Give each other sufficient time and don't get frustrated or
angry if you are not getting the same response or if your partner
does something wrong.
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Remember, marriage is a world of
responsibilities and love & trust are its foundation. </div>
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-79938153638181191752013-12-25T21:24:00.002-08:002013-12-25T21:24:43.382-08:00Honey: A Great 'Sweet' Beauty Aid <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPR2iHghyos1jw_eCrECvMSQPYdPkzr5ZoqxUyYrUTMzbk2ekB0BFSDwThtSXT7FCBH_17lhFBfCWDpu5bIyGKPBzlOONqXHSWUd5hUwPHed7tFmeNdtum-v86Z8cT9zbtN_GcUkmX3lvL/s1600/honey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="256" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPR2iHghyos1jw_eCrECvMSQPYdPkzr5ZoqxUyYrUTMzbk2ekB0BFSDwThtSXT7FCBH_17lhFBfCWDpu5bIyGKPBzlOONqXHSWUd5hUwPHed7tFmeNdtum-v86Z8cT9zbtN_GcUkmX3lvL/s320/honey.jpg" width="320" /></a><em><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="background: #ffffff;">Globally
known as an effective weight loss tool, honey has exemplary effects
on your skin as well. Let's delve deep into it and find out the
wonders of this easily available highly effective and safe
ingredient. </span></span></span></span></em>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Honey
</span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">acts
as a natural cleanser and is highly effective for </span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">ex
foliate</span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">
skin to bring out a glare and radiant complexion. Let's have a look
on some of its benefits- </span></span></span>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">If
you will wash your face with honey once or twice a week, you can
keep the softness of the skin intact and it will also make it
blemish free. </span></span></span>
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</li>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Properly
mix </span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">tomatoes</span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">
and honey together to make a thick paste. Apply it on your skin and
keep it </span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">on</span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">
for 20-25 minutes before washing it. It will act as a good
moisturiser for the skin. </span></span></span>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Honey
is highly recommended to reduce scars. </span></span></span>
</div>
</li>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">It
is also a great moisturiser for the skin. Apply plain honey on your
face and leave it for 5-10 minutes. Later wash it off with warm
water to get a glorifying skin. </span></span></span>
</div>
</li>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Honey
is not only a potent ingredient to keep your face glowing but is
also highly effective for keeping your hair shiny and strong. Mix
honey with olive oil and use the same on your mane. After an hour
wash it off with plain water. Use it as a conditioner and get ready
to flaunt your luscious hair.</span></span></span></div>
</li>
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<span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Honey
has the immense power to turn back the clock also. Containing
</span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">anti-inflammatory
properties that delay the ageing process., </span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">honey
is strongly advised to use before going off to bed every night.</span></span></span></div>
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is also considered as a </span></span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">good
cleanser but when it combines with honey, it creates majestic
effects. To ease out wrinkles and lines, apply a paste of honey and
milk on your skin and wash it off after 15-20 minutes with lukewarm
water.</span></span></span></div>
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your would be spouse too secretive or showing an inflexible attitude?
If your answer is yes then make-up your mind as these signs are the
indicative you should call off your marriage! I know you may not be
ready to accept this fact that your loving partner is no more loyal
to you but dear, it is good to stay alone than to live with a person
whose presence will only makes you more lonely. I have listed down
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Unresponsive- Communication is a key
ingredient of any relation but what if your future spouse hesitates
to discuss his private matters, like his approach towards money,
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Nasty behaviour- If your partner is
hiding or trying to hide money matters from you while you are still
dating then it should raise a red flag. If he is not willing to
disclose his spendings and earnings or he laughs about loan EMIs or
credits and calling it somebody else's problem then it is the time
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Rigid or inflexible attitude- A great
relationship is not only about completion. It's about compromise
also. Being in love doesn't mean you should have a same point of view
about all things. Seeing things differently boasts discovery, unless
your mate never ever ready to give an inch towards seeing things from
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reenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04863208088607622175noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8778250623239418143.post-78144138184341232832013-12-10T04:37:00.001-08:002017-10-14T04:40:27.476-07:00Problems That Are Really Good For Your Married Life!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt; font-weight: normal;">Marriage completes two persons, yet this is a journey which
is not a smooth ride always. If I would compare it with a roller coaster, I
am sure it will not bewilder you.
Marriage is a journey with infinite duration & destination, and full of
experiences, which are both good and bad. But do you know that in a marriage
not only happy moment but the sad ones also teach you a lot, and that's the beauty of this relation! </span></strong><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt; font-weight: normal;">Remember, it is all about how you perceive the
situation and how you learn from it. Lets' glance over some problems that
as a married person you can relate with.
Trust me, these problems will surprise you, and instead of ruining your relation, it
will make it more strong and beautiful
(read it to believe me).</span></strong><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 0.21in;"><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">A huge (or a mammoth) fight</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt; font-weight: normal;">- Fighting is not the
solution to any issue. To add to the dilemma</span></strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;">, things
you say during fights without </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">realising</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;"> its
adverse outcomes only add more <strong style="line-height: 0.21in;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">spark to the fire. But once you
have come out of all these negative feelings, you will feel more calmer and lighter. Isn't it? Your better
half would also feel the same. When both of you have finally calmed down,
discussing the points that ignite the quarrel will surely increase the understanding and trust in your relation. </span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong style="line-height: 0.21in;"><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Professional</span></strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;"><b> problems</b>-
Most of the wives complain that their husbands give more importance to their </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">professional</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;"> commitments
and always discuss their job or business issues at home. But don’t you think,
they consider you as their best friend with whom they want to share everything?
Your few encouraging words would support them. Even if God forbid, your spouse
has to quit the job, you can be their emotional (and financially too!) support
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;">A loss of a job will also bring
both of you closer. As a starter, you will work as a team to </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">prioritise</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt;"> your needs and make both your ends
meet. Then the time you spend in getting other job and the patience showed by your partner as you do so
will <strong style="line-height: 0.21in;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">strengthen your
love life. One day, sitting on the couch, I was watching the interview of
Bollywood actor Arshad Varsi, where
he confessed that he remained unemployed for more than three years and during this time, his wife
stood as a pillar beside him. I was
flabbergasted. It is indeed a big compliment for the fairer skin as male
chauvinists are not considered to be such polite!</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">Some sort of illness</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt; font-weight: normal;">-
No one ever wishes for their dear one to
catch a cough, let alone coming in the contact of severe illness. But believe me, when you will hear
“Don't worry honey, I will do whatever it requires to make you alright” or “I
will always be your side”, you will surely feel that in spite of feeling so
low, the power of love is rejuvenating your all senses again. The undivided
attention and care during this time will strengthen your relationship.</span></strong><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="color: #444444; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 11.0pt; font-weight: normal;">So, next time, when these things are happening with you,
don't panic. Make the best use of this time to come closer to your beloved.</span></strong><span style="font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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