Problems That Are Really Good For Your Married Life!!!

Marriage completes two persons, yet this is a journey which is not a smooth ride always. If I would compare it with a roller coaster, I am sure it will not bewilder you. Marriage is a journey with infinite duration & destination, and full of experiences, which are both good and bad. But do you know that in a marriage not only happy moment but the sad ones also teach you a lot, and that's the beauty of this relation! 

Remember, it is all about how you perceive the situation and how you learn from it. Lets' glance over some problems that as a married person you can relate with. Trust me, these problems will surprise you, and instead of ruining your relation, it will make it more strong and beautiful (read it to believe me).

A huge (or a mammoth) fight- Fighting is not the solution to any issue. To add to the dilemma, things you say during fights without realising its adverse outcomes only add more spark to the fire. But once you have come out of all these negative feelings, you will feel more calmer and lighter. Isn't it? Your better half would also feel the same. When both of you have finally calmed down, discussing the points that ignite the quarrel will surely increase the understanding and trust in your relation.

Professional problems- Most of the wives complain that their husbands give more importance to their professional commitments and always discuss their job or business issues at home. But don’t you think, they consider you as their best friend with whom they want to share everything? Your few encouraging words would support them. Even if God forbid, your spouse has to quit the job, you can be their emotional (and financially too!) support system.

A loss of a job will also bring both of you closer. As a starter, you will work as a team to prioritise your needs and make both your ends meet. Then the time you spend in getting other job and the patience showed by your partner as you do so will strengthen your love life. One day, sitting on the couch, I was watching the interview of Bollywood actor Arshad Varsi, where he confessed that he remained unemployed for more than three years and during this time, his wife stood as a pillar beside him. I was flabbergasted. It is indeed a big compliment for the fairer skin as male chauvinists are not considered to be such polite!

Some sort of illness- No one ever wishes for their dear one to catch a cough, let alone coming in the contact of severe illness. But believe me, when you will hear “Don't worry honey, I will do whatever it requires to make you alright” or “I will always be your side”, you will surely feel that in spite of feeling so low, the power of love is rejuvenating your all senses again. The undivided attention and care during this time will strengthen your relationship.

So, next time, when these things are happening with you, don't panic. Make the best use of this time to come closer to your beloved.