It's now easy to keep the spark alive in your relation even after
becoming parents. Read in to know how
Well we agree it's not an easy task to keep the chemistry going
once there's is the pit-a-pat of a little angel's feet in the house.
There's chores to be attended to, dishes to be washed, food to be
cooked and sleep to catch up. And this 'vicious' cycle begins all
over again. But even in amidst of 'so many' work to be attended,
being man and woman is not altogether impossible either. Your child
is the culmination of your love so why should you make him a reason
of losing passion and sheen in your relation? Read on to know how to
revive your love even after enjoying parenthood.
Love at the doorstep- You are back after a long tiring day and your toddler is eagerly waiting at the doorstep to get in your arms. Many relationship experts opine that a healthy bond between mom and dad is the foundation stone of a peaceful home and that too starts at the entrance gate. Sweep your child in your arm and head straight to your spouse and land a peck on his/her cheek. This will silently convey to your partner that he/she is still your top priority. Plus, your child will glow in the love that you both will share.
Again become a couple- The sudden realization of parenting often becomes a burden and leaves you too tired to share anything more than a hug by the end of the day. But it is crucial to re-ignite your love so keep up the flirt quotient high throughout the day. The gentle touch, kiss/hug or caress on the neck won't only keep the spark of romance alive but will also tell your kids that marriage isn't not only about responsibilities.
Relax- True, he put dirty socks on the bed and she didn't remember to turn off the gas. But is shouting about every little oversight going to work for you? Learn when should you let go off things. There are more bigger (when I am saying bigger, believe me its really bigger) things to take care of. Let the dishes be tomorrow’s problem. Whenever, you fume with anger, think for a minute; will this really matter two years down the line? If the answer comes negative, you know it is good to stop now.
Catch up your old time- Remember the old friends you used to have or those favorite hangouts. Your friends may be waiting to hear from you (probably not the new thing your kid learnt). Catch a movie or revisit your favorite place again. Take up a class you always wanted to and also encourage your partner to do the same. Work around each others time. Believe me when you will pamper yourself, you will rediscover yourself and that will make you more lovable!
Love at the doorstep- You are back after a long tiring day and your toddler is eagerly waiting at the doorstep to get in your arms. Many relationship experts opine that a healthy bond between mom and dad is the foundation stone of a peaceful home and that too starts at the entrance gate. Sweep your child in your arm and head straight to your spouse and land a peck on his/her cheek. This will silently convey to your partner that he/she is still your top priority. Plus, your child will glow in the love that you both will share.
Again become a couple- The sudden realization of parenting often becomes a burden and leaves you too tired to share anything more than a hug by the end of the day. But it is crucial to re-ignite your love so keep up the flirt quotient high throughout the day. The gentle touch, kiss/hug or caress on the neck won't only keep the spark of romance alive but will also tell your kids that marriage isn't not only about responsibilities.
Relax- True, he put dirty socks on the bed and she didn't remember to turn off the gas. But is shouting about every little oversight going to work for you? Learn when should you let go off things. There are more bigger (when I am saying bigger, believe me its really bigger) things to take care of. Let the dishes be tomorrow’s problem. Whenever, you fume with anger, think for a minute; will this really matter two years down the line? If the answer comes negative, you know it is good to stop now.
Catch up your old time- Remember the old friends you used to have or those favorite hangouts. Your friends may be waiting to hear from you (probably not the new thing your kid learnt). Catch a movie or revisit your favorite place again. Take up a class you always wanted to and also encourage your partner to do the same. Work around each others time. Believe me when you will pamper yourself, you will rediscover yourself and that will make you more lovable!
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