Arranged Marriage-Refrain from asking 5 Questions In The First Meeting

Undoubtedly, arranged marriages are not an easy thing to start with. The first meeting is the series of awkward meeting, expressions, shyness and silence. You can never be sure what to say and what to underplay in your conversations with the other party. The entire process becomes uncontrollable when one party asks irrelevant questions. To save you from this trouble, we have listed down 5 questions which you should never ask in the first meeting if you are going for an arranged marriage-

What is your salary? We all have heard this, 'Never ask a woman her age and the man his salary'. However, there is a twist in the story. Even guys should understand that working women would not like the idea of telling their salary at first meeting. The question makes sense that you give more priority to money.

Did you have any past relation? Many people ask this question in the hope of getting 'No' reply. Though, honesty is the prime ingredient of a successful relationship but such personal question should be left for the time when you both become more familiar and comfortable in each others company.










What is your monthly expenses? Being financially safe is indispensable but asking this question out rightly at a first meeting is completely no-no. If the answer of this question really matters to you then you should rephrase it in a much better way. Like ask about his/her hobbies or likes/dislikes as this will give you an idea about their lifestyle.












How many guys or girls have you rejected till now? Just because you are becoming conscious and little bit scary, it doesn't mean that you will start asking absolutely irrelevant questions. If a person is going for an arranged marriage then obviously they would have met quite a few people before meeting you and may meet some more even after you. So, never ask this question as this has good chances of getting backfired.









Will you cook everyday? Are you looking for a spouse or a cook? You are here to understand the person in a better way and not to discuss the household chores. It is really demeaning to ask the question to a woman. Especially for a working woman, it is not possible to come back home after work and then cook. If you yourself can't cook after returning back from office then you should not expect it from the other person.

When you ask wrong question then you end up making a fool of yourself only. So it is best to refrain yourself from asking inconsequential questions and ensure that you find a prospective partner.

Keep Saying “I Love You” to your partner for a happy marriage

The study conducted by OnePoll.com has revealed that kissing and telling your partner "I love you" ten times a week is the secret mantra of a happy marriage.

The survey results also say that having three arguments a month also strengthens the relation and more importantly, a couple must be able to say sorry and couples should be able to each other's mistakes. Also, in perfect marriage, couples make love three times a week and spend seven nights a month cuddled up in front of the television.
Getting married is not a daunting task but it takes a lot of commitment and efforts to keep your marriage a perfect one. If two people are not ready to accept each other unconditionally, they will surely find it difficult to keep their marriage life long lasting.
 

Make the “Valentine week” special....

Finally it has arrived! The year long wait for the love bugs is now over with the onset of Valentine week. Every day of the week gives you ample of reasons to celebrate love and togetherness. So, capitalize the most of it and acknowledge your love for your beloved. If you curious to know how to make tickle the love bone of your beloved, you have certainly landed on the right page. Let's take it step by step and know how to commemorate every day of the love week-

February 7- Rose Day

The great symbol of love, a red rose, is perfect to kick start the Valentine week. Take a beautiful bouquet of roses to make your beloved feel special. If you have some budget constraints, just one red rose is more than enough to convey your feelings and emotions, which even costliest items would not be able to do so. Even if you want to drop a hint to someone whom you have just met or want to pamper your beloved with a special gesture, this is the best day to do so.

February 8- Propose Day

Yes, this is the awesome day to confess your feelings for your sweetheart. I personally like this day, because if the fire is same on both sides, you will get a warm answer, but if there is only one side love, the other person will never scold you. After all it is a propose day! But wait a minute, who says it is a day meant for unmarried people. Even if you are married, you can relive 'those' special moments by again proposing your spouse for marriage. Married couples can renew their vows. If you cannot think of anything else, go for the romantic candle-light dinner date.

February 9- Chocolate Day

Chocolates add more love to the already 'sugary' relationship. Rather than gifting a box of chocolates, try to bake a chocolate cake for your beloved. (Believe me, blending of love and chocolate is indeed a sinful combination, and rapture on each other and not just your chocolate cake)

February 10- Teddy Day

Though, some may find it cliched, but a sweet teddy bear is an impeccable gift to cuddle onto whenever you will miss your beloved. This gift can live with you in your room and can always remind you of that 'special' person you have in your life. Though teddies are considered to be perfect gift option for girls, but even men also like to have it.

February 11- Promise Day

“I never make a promise, I don't intend to keep, so whenever I say forever, forever is what I mean” Doesn't it sum up the need to keep promises for each other?. This and such nice quotes are perfect for this day. If you truly love the person then why should you afraid from expressing it? Make it unique or special by promising something really special to them under the moonlight or at the time when you both are together over the candle-light dinner.

February 12- Hug Day

Nothing can perfectly convey your emotions as a nice and tight hug. Whether you plan to hug your partner each time or if it is a spontaneous casual hug, you should make them feel special. So it is a nice idea to put all your warmth and feelings in a hug and make it comes from the heart. On this special day, plan an exciting picnic with your partner and make it fun or casual by playing exciting games and eating out. Don't miss any opportunity to hug your darling.

February 13- Kiss Day

It is a kiss day so who says you need fancy and expensive set up to live this day? Dig your heart in a home cooked meal, clink wine and play some funny but lovely games. As the day is approaching to an end, seal it with a passionate kiss.